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Chelsea Finally Sack Coach Graham For Non-Performance in 2022/2023 Season Chelsea football club has confirmed the sacking of its manager for the football premier league period. This comes as the pressure becomes so much on the owners to sack the statistician for the rest of the season. Many has criticized his style of play. Most of his tactics could not go well with the players as they find it very difficult to cope with. The latest sack came after a worrisome performance against Aston villa. The game which everyone sees as the life line for the coach he threw all the three point away for the club. It has been confirmed by the club through their official website and reliable information from Nigerian reliable news media. The news came and as a big relief for most Chelsea fan who feels the club should have sacked the coach earlier than now. The club were quoted saying “Chelsea would like to thank Graham for all his efforts and contribution and wish him well for the future.” Obviously the Aston loss is the 11th defeat in the 31 games since taking over from Thomas Tuchel on 8th September. The German tactician was sacked when Chelsea were 6th in the premier league table. The German won some trophies including the high ranked Champions League, UEFA Super cup and the FIFA club world cup. The full statement reads, “Chelsea FC has announced that Graham Potter has departed the club. Graham has agreed to collaborate with the Club to facilitate a smooth transition. In his time with the club, Graham has taken us to the quarter final of the Champions League, where we will face Real Madrid. Chelsea would like to thank Graham for all his efforts and contribution and wish him well for the future.” The club also stated that Graham Potter “has agreed to collaborate with the club to facilitate a smooth transition” and Bruno Saltor will take charge of the team as Interim Head Coach. Co-controlling owners Todd Boehly and Behdad Eghbali said: ‘On behalf of everyone at the club, we want to thank Graham sincerely for his contribution to Chelsea. We have the highest degree of respect for Graham as a coach and as a person. He has always conducted himself with professionalism and integrity and we are all disappointed in this outcome. ‘Along with our incredible fans, we will all be getting behind Bruno and the team as we focus on the rest of the season. We have 10 Premier League games remaining and a Champions League quarter final ahead. We will put every effort and commitment into every one of those games so that we can end the season on a high.’ The Blues have spent more than £550m on new players this season and are searching for their third manager of the season after parting ways with the English man. Chelsea are now sitting 11th position in the league. They needed a better manager now to turn things around for them and be able to finish in the league. Chelsea supporters demand a better coach to replace Graham so as to increase their chances of winning more trophies. Many options are in place with the likes of former Bayern Munich coach and Leicester coach who are now without a good coach.

by Soloinformer April 3, 2023

written by Soloinformer

Chelsea Finally Sack Coach Graham For Non-Performance in 2022/2023 Season

Chelsea football club has confirmed the sacking of its manager for the football premier league period. This comes as the pressure becomes so much on the owners to sack the statistician for the rest of the season.

Many has criticized his style of play. Most of his tactics could not go well with the players as they find it very difficult to cope with. The latest sack came after a worrisome performance against Aston villa. The game which everyone sees as the life line for the coach he threw all the three point away for the club.

It has been confirmed by the club through their official website and reliable information from Nigerian reliable news media. The news came and as a big relief for most Chelsea fan who feels the club should have sacked the coach earlier than now.

The club were quoted saying “Chelsea would like to thank Graham for all his efforts and contribution and wish him well for the future.”

Obviously the Aston loss is the 11^th defeat in the 31 games since taking over from Thomas Tuchel on 8^th September. The German tactician was sacked when Chelsea were 6^th in the premier league table. The German won some trophies including the high ranked Champions League, UEFA Super cup and the FIFA club world cup.

Shiloh 2022 Living Faith Church Theme Covenant Highways

by Soloinformer November 3, 2022

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Shiloh 2022 Living Faith Church Theme Covenant Highways

Shiloh is an annual program of the Living Faith Church. The mandate God has given to his servant Bishop David Oyedepo to preach the gospel and to deliver the oppressed from every form of affliction is a big mandate.

Shiloh is one of the largest gathering of the body of Christ in Nigeria. The program is a yearly program that has been a blessing to the entire world through the preaching of the world of faith. People travel all over the world to come and experience this wonderful presence in the house of God.

Mouthwatering testimony are evidence of the supernatural touch of God during this program as people receives instants miracles of financial breakthrough and also healing of various form of infirmities. The lord has been so magnificent during this program.

This year Shiloh is another opportunity again as the theme of 2022 is Covenant Highways. Shiloh is always a preparation for New Year. It is a supernatural blessing to enter the New Year with lot of blessing.

Different representatives of countries come for the Shiloh from different locations. It is a time of getting closer to God of all possibilities. The God who has never failed in the Shiloh is always doing great and showing himself mighty in all ways.

Living Faith also known as Winners chapel is located in Ota, Osun State Western part of Nigeria with satellite branch spread across all the Globe. This year’s theme is declared as Covenant Highways.

This article is designed to tell you the date and time of the event. The mobility and logistics involved. This year promises to be different with spiritual blessings attached to it. The program this year its not just an annual event but impact for greatness.

Who Can Attend Shiloh?

Regardless of the tribe or religion anyone can attend the annual program. Both children, adult, wife, husband and any person from the sphere of life can attend the program. The program do not restrict anyone from attending the church.

What Is The Theme Of This Year’s Shiloh

The theme of this year’s Shiloh is declared as Covenant Highways. The prophetic declaration has gone ahead of us. The anchor scripture is taken from the Isaiah 55:8-13.

Your thoughts are not my thoughts and your WAYS are not my WAYS, says the Lord, as the heaven is far from the earth so are my thoughts HIGHER than yours and my WAYS HIGHER than yours.

The program will start on Tuesday 6th December and end on 11th December 2022.

The Event Runs for A Period of Six Days AS follows:

Tuesday 6th December 2022

Shiloh 2022 Opening Opening night (Encounter Night ): 7-10 pm

Wednesday 7th December 2020 – day 2:

Shiloh prayer our 6:00am – 7:00am

Hour of Visitation – 7:15 am- 11:15 pm

Specialized classes – 1:15 – 3:00 pm

Youth & Minister Conference – 3 – 4:45 pm

Encounter Night – 7-10 pm

Thursday 8th December 2022 – day 3:

Click here to watch Day 3 Live Broadcast

Shiloh prayer our 6:00am – 7:00am

Hour of Visitation – 7:15 am- 11:15 pm

Specialized classes – 1:15 – 3:00 pm

Youth & Minister Conference – 3 – 4:45 pm

Encounter Night – 7-10 pm

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Friday 9th December 2022 – day 4:

Shiloh prayer our 6:00am – 7:00am

Hour of Visitation – 7:15 am- 11:15 pm

Specialized classes – 1:15 – 3:00 pm

Youth & Minister Conference – 3 – 4:45 pm

Encounter Night – 7-10 pm

Saturday 10th December 2022 – day 5:

Impartation/Mantle/Anointing Service – 6 am-12 pm

Where / How to Watch Shiloh 2022.

Venue for Shiloh 2022

Faith Tabernacle

The Living Faith Church, Headquarters, Faith Tabernacle, Canaanland, Ota, Nigeria.

Shiloh 2022 Viewing Centres / Winners Chapel Branches

Another Place to Watch the Shiloh 2022 Event Live is at Any of The Designated Shiloh Viewing Centres Nationwide.

Satellite Tv.

Through Living Faith Church Channel on Strong Decoders. You Can Also Watch Shiloh 2022 via Cable Tv, Especially the Strong decoder. Channel Details Would Be Updated Soon.

Online

You Can Watch Shiloh 2022 Online. Click Here to Watch Shiloh 2022. you Can Also Listen to Shiloh 2022 via Domi Radio (audio Only). the Online Channels Give You Options to Choose from As Low as 3gp Mobile Resolution to A 24k Hd Resolution.

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November 3, 2022 0 comment

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IPOB Leader Nnamdi Kanu Discharged And Acquitted

by Soloinformer October 14, 2022

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IPOB Leader Nnamdi Kanu Discharged And Acquitted

IPOB leader Nnamdi Kanu has been discharged and acquitted. The court of Appeal sitting in Abuja yesterday dismissed the 15-count charge of terrorism against the leader of the indigenous people of Biafra, IPOB.

While delivering the unanimous judgement by the three man panel headed by justice Jummai Hanatu discharged the leader and acquitted him of all the allegation level against him and order his release fro the unlawful detention.

The court was quoted saying that it was satisfied that FG fragrantly violated all the known laws. The forceful rendition of kanu from kenya is illegal and unlawful.

The court absolutely held that the extra-ordinary rendition of the leader without due process contravenes the law and also a gross violation of international conventions and guidelines. The court also say it violate the breach of the appellant’s fundamental human rights.

The lead judgment was delivered by justice Oludotun Adetope-Okojie. He noted that the FG failed to refute the allegation that the IPOB leader was in kenya and that he was abducted and brought back to the country without any proper proceedings.

It held that FG was “ominously silent on the issue”, which it described as very pivotal in determining whether the trial court would still have the jurisdiction to continue with the criminal proceeding before it.

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“In law, that is a costly failure and such failure is an admittance by the Respondent.“Where a party fails to controvert a deposition by an opponent, the issue not contested is deemed conceded”, the court held, adding that the onus was on FG to prove the legality of the Appellant’s arrest and return from Kenya.

The court also held that Nigeria been signatory to the organization of African Union, OAU that is dully ratified as well as the Charter on Human and Peoples Rights, which it states how a person can be transferred from one country to another.

It held that any extradition request must be in writing, with a statement indicating offences for which a person is wanted.

The court said that Federal Government action tainted the entire process it initiated against Nnamdi Kanu and thus amounted to an abuse of criminal prosecution.

“The court will never shy away from calling the Executive to order when it tilts towards Executive recklessness”, the appellate court held, even as it accused FG of engaging in “serious abuse of power”.

The court further say that going by basic ingredients of the offense, the Federal High Court in Anambra should be the appropriate court with territorial jurisdiction to entertain the case.

The appellate court said it would be pre-judicial for it to make an order on the proscription of IPOB since the issue is still on appeal. It also held that the proscription order of the lower court would definitely subsist until it is set-aside.

“On the whole, this appeal succeeds and it is allowed. The ruling of trial Justice Binta Nyako of the Federal High Court delivered on April 8 is hereby set-aside.

“The 15-count charge against the Appellant at the lower court is hereby struck out.

“The Appellant is hereby discharged and acquitted”, the appellate court held.

The IPOB leader, who has been in detention for over 14 months following his re-arrest in Kenya, had through his team of lawyers led by Mike Ozekhome, SAN, approached the appellate court to quash the charges against him.Specifically, he prayed the appellate court to review the April 8 ruling of the Federal High Court in Abuja, which struck out only eight out of the 15-count charge FG preferred against him.

Kanu, in his appeal marked CA/ABJ/CR/625/2022, contended that the charge was legally defective and incompetent, even as he applied to be discharged and acquitted.

Arguing the appeal on September 13, Ozekhome, alleged that his client was forcefully abducted from Kenya by security operatives, blindfolded and illegally renditioned back to the country.

He told the court that his client was first arraigned on December 23, 2015 and was later granted bail on April 25, 2017.

October 14, 2022 0 comment

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INEC Adhoc Recruitment For 2023 General Election

by Soloinformer September 8, 2022

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INEC Adhoc Recruitment For 2023 General Election

INEC has open their portal for recruitment for those that wants to participate in the coming election. The process for this selection will be based on merit and absolute competence. For those who have been waiting for the opportunity this is the right time to do so.

The Nigerian electoral system has made a very big step towards credible election in 2023 and thus there is a need for more qualified candidate to conduct the election. It should not be based on partisan politics and absurd desperation for to work for any candidate of choice.

The Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), on Wednesday, said it will soon launch a portal for recruitment of ad-hoc staff ahead of the 2023 general elections.

The commission, in a letter signed by A.T Yusuf, for the INEC Secretary, will be open to eligible applicants from 14 September to 14 December by 8:00 p.m.

He said the exercise, which will be launched through INECPRES, will be opened to others except collation/returning officers.

Mr Yusuf, in the letter to all Resident Electoral Commissioners (REC), requested the cooperation of all administrative secretaries, head of departments, among others, to attain the required number of ad-hoc staff per state.

“To achieve the required number of ad-hoc staff per State, it is important that robust engagement/sensitization by the Admin. Secs HOD EOPS/EOs & AEOS under the leadership of the RECS is commenced with the Authorities of Federal, State Tertiary Institutions and the NYSC offices (state/ Government levels),” he said.

The INECPRES is available via two links located on the INEC website: www.inecnigeria.org (a link for the Mobile App and the other link is for the web portal).

Requirements For Inec Adhoc Recruitment 2022

From time to time, the Electoral body does carry out numerous recruitment exercises to fill in various vacancies that exist in order to conduct hitch-free elections in the country.

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Basic Application Requirements

Applicants are expected to possess at least five (5) credit grades in WASC/GCE/SSCE including Maths, English, and 3 other relevant subjects obtained in one sitting.

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Applicants are expected to possess a Bachelor’s Degree (BSC, HND, ND, and NCE) minimum of Second Class Honours (Lower Division)

NYSC Discharge Certificate will be an added advantage

Applicants should be a Nigerian citizen

Please note that INEC reserves the right to make use of NYSC Corp members as temporary staff, so if you are a serving corp member and you have the intention to get enlisted, you are free to apply.

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Top 4 Political Parties For 2023 General Elections In Nigeria

by Soloinformer August 3, 2022

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Top 4 Political Parties For 2023 General Elections In Nigeria

The top 4 political parties for the 2023 general elections in Nigeria are very vital. The winds of elections are running very fast. During elections, people are meant to choose leaders that can represent them perfectly.

The election in Nigeria is keenly contested by various political parties. The political parties present who to represents them in the general elections. Normally in Nigeria, elections are after every four years. Elections are a vital period in the Nigerian democracy.

Ranging from the president to the house of assembly, the choice lies in the hands of the electorate. The Nigerian system practice a multiple-party system that gives room to make choice. The flag bearers of every party represent the party for the election.

In as much as the system is very open, it has its pitfalls. The pitfall in the elections is a major setback to Nigeria’s democratic setting. Now the polity is heating up strongly and everyone is looking for a strategy to win elections.

It is very important to know how the political party is doing to take over power. This article will deal critically with the ranking and possibility of each of the political parties in Nigeria. The chances of winning elections are based on information gathered both in the field and online.

Sometimes the election is won based on the zonal numerical strength. In Nigeria, the country is divided into a different geo-political zone. Each zone has its numerical strength and power values. From time to time some zone cry for marginalization.

The basic thing is that democracy is a game of numbers. The zone with the highest numbers is always considered a stronghold for winning elections. In Nigeria, the population of the north is considered very high, especially Kano and Kaduna states.

In this article, we shall be discussing the political party making waves. Even though in Nigeria a multi-party system is practiced, the politics is always heated by just two dominant parties. The system is always PDP or APC.

This time around if the political landscape will change is what we don’t know. If a third force will emerge it will be a shake-up in the Nigerian system. Like what happened in the 2015 election when different parties merged to win an election.

The following are the top 10 political parties for the 2023 general elections in Nigeria. The list is exclusively devoid of political attachment. The list is wholly and not sentimental-driven. It is based on reality and the party’s popularity.

The Peoples Democratic Party (PDP)

The people’s democratic party is ready and fully prepared for the general elections come 2023. They are the main opposition party in Nigeria. PDP is the first to conduct a primary election in Nigeria in the build-up to the 2023 general election.

In readiness, for the election, the PDP is not new to the system again. Having ruled for many years they know how to convince and canvass votes to win an election. Even though some internal crises are rocking the party, they still stand very strong for the 2023 general election.

If there are any chances of winning the election, then I think PDP has a very good chance of winning the election. They have been in government from Olusegun Obasanjo and Umar Musa Yaradua. The party enjoyed the government till Goodluck Jonathan.

With the emergence of Atiku Abubakar as the flag bearer of the party, they can win. He is an experienced and seasoned politician who has served as vice president for two-term under the Obasanjo regime. Without a doubt, they are among the top 4 political parties for the 2023 general election.

All Progressive Congress (APC)

The All Progressive Congress is another political party fully prepared to take over the leadership of the country. They are the ruling party. Having fielded Asiwaju Tinubu as their presidential candidate for the general election, they wait patiently to continue in government.

The political mathematics is to bring the vice from the north that can have the support of the people. The Muslim-Muslim ticket will give them an edge because of the dominant nature of Muslims and their voting strength.

Labour Party (LP)

The Labour party has become a household name since the emergence of Peter Obi. Many see Peter Obi as the Messiah. With his track record and youthful age, he stands a very good chance to win the election. The social media platforms are just behind him.

With the lingering insecurity challenge in the country, people are hoping to change the government and see if it will reduce. The value of the naira has depreciated so much against the dollar and the hike in the price of goods and services has made people way options for the emergence of Peter Obi. The movement gave them rank to be among the top 4 political parties for the 2023 general election.

The running mate of the Labour party is from the north. With the numerical strength of the north and the crying of marginalization by the east, peter Obi has a very big chance of winning the election. People see the labour party as the third force.

NNPP

The NNPP is considered another party to pull a lot of surprises come to the 2023 general election. The party has Rabiu Kwankwaso as its presidential candidate. He is a grass root politician and a mobilizer. He has a lot of fan base in the north.

The Kwankwasia movement is very broad and it encompasses all the northern states. He is from one of the most populated states in Nigeria. The people of Kano love him so much. He has proven in many elections that he can win.

Kwankwaso is not working over when it comes to the election in Nigeria. He might put up a surprise and make a mark in the forthcoming general election. He has made a very wide consultation with his people and other political big waits.

Top 8 Secrets of Peaceful In Awume Kingdom

by Soloinformer April 20, 2022

written by Soloinformer

Top 8 Secrets of Peaceful Marriage In Awume Kingdom

Top 8 secrets of peaceful marriage in Awume kingdom is very vital. Marriage is an institution formed by God. The understanding between two people to live together is very important in human life. Often, both parties are of different ideologies and backgrounds. The choice is based on preference.

Systematically, a union between two parties should entail mutual benefits. The decision to stay together and have children is vital. For some people it is an achievement while to some is just a normal obligation.

The determination to stay together is the sole decision of two grown-up adults. The emphasis is placed on whether the marriage is going to be successful or not. Marriage as rightly put is a school of lesion till eternity.

In modern society, people make use of different mediums to get their choice in life. Some marriages are term illegal based on the belief and traditions of that particular area. There is no global standard of marriage.

The best way of marriage might be the worse way of marriage in some quarters. Significantly, marriage shapes human life and the responsibility of humans. The moment the vow is exchanged, both parties start thinking very far from the beginning.

In addition, marriage open up closed doors and the destiny of people. That is the belief of some persons in the Christian race. The reality of life is when you move into the marriage. Some persons take marriage as a bed of roses and to others, it is not.

The joy of marriage comes with emotions attached. The irony of life is that some person loses for others to gain. People indulge themselves in different things all in the name of marriage. The truth is that marriage is not just one day.

Categorically speaking, in Awume kingdom marriage is celebrated with both financial and material resources. Awume people always hold married couples in high esteem than single individuals. This singular act makes a single crave marriage.

This article shall unravel the ten pills of keeping a home or marriage in Awume kingdom. Anyone that what to be successful in the Awume kingdom in terms of marriage should consider the following pills to sustain the marriage.

Food

Any woman that wants to survive and maintain a healthy marriage must know how to cook very well. The variety of dishes to be cooked should reflect the choice of the husband. While some men cheat on their wife is because of cooking.

In Awume kingdom, men don’t like eating outside or in restaurants. Majority of men like home-prepared food. Speaking, men from the axis prefer women that cook very well to beauty. To keep your home very well, cooking should be given adequate priority.

In a nutshell, for you to win the heart of man from Awume kingdom, you must be masterful in cooking. People think is just beauty that wins a heart of a man but just try this first pill and the problem in marriage will become things of the past.

Character

character is one of the top 8 secrets of peaceful marriage in Awume kingdom. Character is the second pill in this article. This pill cannot be hidden for life. In as much as you pretend one day the real character will show up. Character ranges from the mode of greeting, tone, stewardship, etc.

A popular saying that character is more than gold is very true because a woman or man without character is just nothing. Many homes and marriages are torn apart because of bad character from both parties.

A situation where husband and wife refused to greet themselves because of just a minor argument is very bad. Sometimes the woman will not even allow the man to talk and holds on to her opinion every time can crack down-home or marriage.

Negative energy makes husband and wife separate because of unresolved differences and such is not hygienic for marriage. Some couples lack morals to keep their home and marriage from collapsing. The result of a failed marriage is a mockery.

Some ladies exhibit absolute pretense when dating. They shades their true color and identity which turned out to affect them later. If you want to have a good home, pretense should be avoided and trust should be built and not compromised.

Infidelity

one of the top 8 secrets of peaceful marriage in Awume kingdom is infidelity. Infidelity is the crash of marriage. Many homes crash these days because of infidelity. The question is? , what makes spouses cheat on each other. Sometimes the devil uses infidelity to crash a lovely built home and scatter everything.

Any home characterized by infidelity is doomed to fail and collapse out rightly. Significantly the resultant effect of infidelity has a multiplier effect on both couples. Any home that wants to experience peace should never compromise its emotions for anything.

It is necessary to state here that intimacy should be a priority at home. When any of the parties starve the other it will become a concern and suspicion will set in place. Therefore any home full of suspicion is void of a total crackdown.

The fundamental part of any marriage is trust. Negation from the original state of one person can drastically change the narratives and both parties will have to bear the consequence together. In totality, it is volatile to trade intimacy out of wedlock.

Infidelity starts when both parties start showing attributes of cheating on one another. The wife is going out likewise the husband. When it becomes crystal clear that both parties cheat on each other the home will become shattered.

The problem of infidelity is most common in the celebrity class. Stories emanate from different quarters. Sometimes social media form an integral part of escalating stories fabricated by someone with an interior motive.

Time and Resources

Spending quality time with each other can go a long way to cementing a relationship. The time spent with one another can be used to discuss pressing needs and discuss any issue affecting both parties negatively.

Sometimes, families do not have time for themselves just because of personal engagement. Personal commitment can cause a delay in returning home from work and not returning home completely at all. Sometimes either the husband or wife would want a company.

Time and resources are very important to keep the home in good shape. Both parties should avoid hiding resources from each other. Resources include money, materials, properties, etc. The attitude of hiding things from each other can be a huge problem.

Trust

The issue of trust is very important. No matter the smooth nature of marriage, the issue of distrust set in can destroy a strong relationship built for years. Husband and wife are supposed to have mutual trust in each other.

Any home without trust is running toward the end. Categorically there should be a bound of open-mindedness if the home wants to prosper and cherish in harmony. Always tell yourselves the truth for peace to reign.

The husband should vouch for the wife on matters unknown to him. Trust makes both parties sleep in peace. Distrust makes someone sleep and wake up in the mid night and start checking the phones of the other one.

Culture and Tradition

culture and tradition is one of the top 8 secret of marriage in Awume. Awume has a very strict tradition. The moment the tradition is flaunted can result in adverse effect. As a married woman, you are not expected to visit another man without the knowledge of your husband. It is expected that you visit with your husband.

In Awume the gods of jealousy can frown at any woman visiting another man. If the notice of such is brought before the man, the woman is expected to carry out the cleaning. Cleansing involves sacrifice to appease the gods of the land.

In totality, if you want to have a very blissful marriage in Awume you must understand the culture and tradition of Awume people. In a nutshell, the ability of any woman to perfectly understands the culture and tradition helps in building a home.

Love and Respect

Love and respect is one of the top 8 secret of peaceful marriage in Awume kingdom. Love and respect are things cherished in Awume kingdom. Both husband and wife should exhibit this trait in other for the marriage to move smoothly. Any family without love and respect batters each other with insult and hatred.

Respect should be replicated by both husband and wife. Love and respect make way for understanding between the parties regardless of their flaws. The love and respect make it easy to align with one another.

The vital part of marriage is love and respect for each other. Any home love and respect take charge they flourish in happiness and prosperity. In our society today, the love and respect among families have helped immensely in building the home.

Association

The people you associate yourself with matter a lot in marriage. If you associate with the divorcee your marriage will start gearing up in that direction. The ability to manage good friends forms an integral part of the home.

Like the saying, evil communication corrupts good morals. Therefore a home in need of peace knows who they keep as friends. Association shapes the home and gives direction to the family. Awume people believe in a godly association.

Forgiveness

one of the top 8 secrets of peaceful marriage in Awume kingdom is forgiveness. Any home that wants to experience peace should learn how to forgive each other. Forgiveness is paramount to keeping any home in a good state. In the family, husband and wife should learn how to forgive and forget wrongdoings.

I hope if critically followed, the top 8 secrets of peaceful marriage in Awume kingdom will make your stay well in the home and keep the marriage in good shape. This article has made a bold step in building a good home and stepping up to expectations.

April 20, 2022 0 comment

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Top 8 gods worshiped in Idoma Land

by Soloinformer April 20, 2022

written by Soloinformer

Top 8 gods worshiped in Idoma Land

Top 8 gods worshiped in Idoma land are very important. Tradition simply put is the way of people’s life. Religion and culture are inseparable and as such should be taken very seriously. Everyone in this modern age has a culture and religion they practice. Some people are so dedicated to their tradition.

The vital question is, can tradition be separated from religion? The answer is no it cannot. Idoma people hold their religion in high esteem that is why to present they still worship their gods. The entire kingdom is been protected by different gods.

The history of the gods is passed from generation to generation. Every household must have its special gods they worship. They believe in some special kind of gods for their family and the one that gives them a favor.

The moment you are born to a family, automatically there is a religion you must choose and worship truly to stay afloat. The rationale behind this religion is the belief of the people of idoma land. Most often people traveled far and wide to worship these gods.

True religion is seen as a priority. They view tradition as a must because it has never failed them. Furthermore, People are not allowed to associate with people if they are not committed members of some religion.

They see your commitment as an avenue to be a leader. Most religious leaders are powerful traditionalists. They believe that charity must begin at home. They entrust devoted traditionalists with a powerful position in society.

The idea of entrusting traditionalists with authority is that they are seen as trustworthy and pure people. They have a special seat in the community gathering. Most often their idea is seen as the best. They are a consultant to both families and clans.

The social well-being of idoma kingdom is wholly left in their hand. In an event of any problem, they come out to rescue. Many families worship their god in different ways and directions. The truth of the matter is that they worship the same gods.

This article is going to critically look at ten gods worshipped in idoma land. The gods worshipped can be of benefit to both the citizens and outsiders. If you visit idoma land you are expected to follow their tradition and worship their gods too.

Ichekpa

Ichepa is seen as a god of good health. Any time there is an epidemic outbreak in the land, ichekpa is consulted to weigh in and solve the problem. Ichekpa has been the gods protecting the idoma kingdom for ages.

Those who worship ichekpa never believe in hospitals. They make their sacrifices at the noon. They have nothing to fear. The sacrifices of the ichekpa range from goat ram and fowl. Ichekpa is the dreaded image of tired with rope. It’s no doubt Ichekpa is among the top 8 gods worshiped in Idoma land.

Most times ichekpa is tired of the three. It is a black calved image that looks like rope. The sacrifice is done on the tree that hosts the image. Women are not allowed to urinate under the tree. They see women’s urine as contamination.

Every year it is expected that a sacrifice must be made to the god. If sacrifice is not made any year ichekpa would be angry and can cause sickness for the entire community. Families that worship this god believe to enjoy good health all the time.

Ichekpa is transcending from one generation to another. It is expected that each family must have a representative of ichekpa. Any family without a representative is bound to face any form of health challenges melted out by the gods.

Alekwu

Alekwu is a god of jealousy. It represents the gods of war and protection. Any time there is external aggression the Alekwu comes to the rescue. Most warriors diligently seek the face of the Alekwu spirit to conquer the war.

The origin of Alekwu is traceable to the ancestors that fought battle for the entire idoma kingdom. Any directive of the Alekwu during the war is considered ultimate. Alekwu is an unseen God that passes from generation to generation. This god is among the top 8 gods worshiped in Idoma land.

Alekwu according to idoma people is believed to be the spirit of their forefathers. Once they gave birth to you in Idoma kingdom, automatically you are bound by the alekwu spirit. Alekwu does not permit iniquities and bad behavour.

Women in idoma land are bound by the Alekwu spirit. Married women cannot cheat on their husbands. If any woman cheats on her husband is struck by the death spirit. It makes idoma women stay fateful to their husbands.

In other to appease the Alekwu spirit, it is expected to make sacrifices of farm produce and living animal. The sacrifice must be done every six months. During the sacrifice, it is expected that everyone stays at home to avoid the wrath of the gods.

Iyawu

Iyawu is the god for harvest and abundance of rain. It is fierce and non-temperamental. Anytime there is a poor harvest, the main point of focus is always the god of rain and harvest. Idoma people worship this god in other to get a better harvest from their farm.

Every season people worship this god because of its importance in terms of food and farm yield. Idoma people don’t joke with this god at all. Almost the entire land worships this god in other for their farm product to prosper very well.

Iyawu has no respect for anyone. If you alike to be a chief or servant the story is the same. The same punishment is always melted out is equal is any rules are broken. The punishment for default is always madness.

If iyawu possesses any one with madness, the person is expected to go for cleansing and make some sacrifices. The cleansing is done in a river that serves the community. Once the sacrifice is done, the madness will instantly finish.

Akpabana

Akpabana is the god of rain, thunder, and lightning. The family that worships this god has the spiritual power to control the rain. They can tell the rain to fall and it will rain. They possess the supernatural power of rain and thunder.

On occasion, this god protects the environment from rain and makes sure rain doesn’t spoil the occasion. Families that worship this god in Idoma land always see their self as king of rainmakers. They are given preferential treatment on occasion. This god is among the top 8 gods worshiped in Idoma land.

If you want to host an occasion you must consult Akpadana if not the occasion will be in total mess. For every occasion, akpadana is expected to eat like two life fowl as sacrifices. If the sacrifices are not met, anything that happens you have to bear it.

Apploh

Apploh is a dead god. People who worship this god are classified as bad people in society. Apploh is the god that sends sickness to people. People go to collect power from this god in other to destroy their enemy.

Apploh is sent through incantation to the targeted person. The god can kill by inflicting somebody with sickness. The outcome of this illness is not always funny. The worshipper of this god always makes the sacrifice to Apploh.

This god is gradually fading away because people see it as a very wicked god. They see apploh as a dangerous god. It does not have mercy on anyone. Whenever Apploh kills anyone the person is buried immediately to avoid further death.

Ojijih

Ojijih is a god of elevation. The god is located in a mountain and hilly places. The worshipper goes to a mountain top to worship and makes their sacrifices to their god. Normally they see ojijih as the god of promotion and promotion in place of work.

Those in Idoma land can never stop worshiping this god because it has elevated most of their son to a place of high authority. Mothers and fathers worship this god for their children in cities and town so that they can promotion in their office.

It is expected that you give adequate respect and dedication to ojijih any time you have promotion. If proper sacrifices are not performed, the ojijih can drastically make you demoted. So if are worshiping this god are expected you make sacrifices when due.

Ogbanje

Ogbanje is the god of wealth and money. People who worship are classified as rich people and money. Anyone worshipping this god and does not have money is seen as some that are committed. This god is selective.

Ogbanje favors some people and despises others. Most wealthy people of idoma land enjoy the favor ogbanje. The god is made of a wooden image and cannot move or talk. It is powerful in making someone enjoy sudden wealth.

Eku

Eku is one of the top 8 gods worshiped in Idoma land. this Eku is a god of modesty and justice. Any time people have a dispute they seek the face eku for settlement. Anyone guilty cannot swear before god because it can strike someone dead. If you know you are guilty of any crime you have to beg eku for forgiveness.

Eku suffers from nobody for wrongdoing. It gives room for confession and reduction in punishment meted out for anyone. Those who worship this god are seen as judges to settle any case that can be resolved by mere negotiation.

In the process of judging, the worshipper will tell both the accused and defendant to speak the truth in order not to incur the anger of the god.

This article has critically looked at the religion and traditional god of idoma land. People of idoma extradition not at home are bound by this god.

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10 Best Female Footballers in Otukpo

by Soloinformer April 19, 2022

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10 Best Female Footballers in Otukpo

10 best female footballers in Otukpo are very important. Female football is very exciting. The origin of female football in otukpo can be traced back to the early competition organized by a first-class chief. The development of male football is instrumental to the development of female football.

When people discovered how important football is to community integration, they started investing in female football. Grass root sport is very essential for uniting people of different backgrounds and different beliefs.

Since the inception of otukpo Local government, female football has not been taken into serious consideration until people started seeing its importance. In present-day dispensation, people gather in large to watch the game.

When female football started in otukpo Benue state, it was funny and exciting with the way those female footballers plays the game. Sometimes they used their hand to play with the ball which is against the ethics and rules of the game.

Later the game started developing and people started making fortune out of it. The rationale behind female football is to encourage women with skills and adequately annexed this skill into football. Female football has taken many women from the street.

Female football is getting better attention and it should be taken very seriously. Gone are the days when people decide to push female sports aside. It has gathered a lot of momentum and attraction from different corners.

The criteria for rating female footballers are the same as that for male football. The selection process for female footballers is done by a group of judges drawn across various districts. Pundits and journalists across the local government gather to vote for their best player every year.

Voting for the best player is also done by the coach of different clubs in the local government. The individual performance also matters in the selection process. The number of goals scored, assists and successful dribbles, and the number of trophies won.

The individual players must show excellent performance and determination in other for their names to appear on the list. Developing female football is not easy but in the current situation, it has gathered a lot of debate from different corners.

Otukpo female footballers are making it very well in the world of football. The football world is watching critically to harvest a lot of talents for both Europe and football heavy-weight countries. Football scouts visit the local government time without a number to look for great talent.

This article will discuss vividly the best ten female footballers ever produced in otukpo Benue state. The list is drawn from the entire community that made up the local government area. This list is devoid of partiality and favoritism.

Aladi

Aladi is one of the 10 best female footballers in Otukpo. She is a veteran striker. She plays for Adoka united. Aladi was born and brought to Adoka center. She plays an important role in the emergence of adoka united as a league leader. Her style of play is quite different from other female footballers.

She is 22years with a lot of ambition and determination. She rules her world with great talent and resilience. She portrays a high standard and shows her teammate how to be committed to the game. Aladi is the best in female football she standout to be the best.

During the award ceremony, she scaled very high among her equals and mate. She places value on the team winning. Her proficiency in front of goals makes her an excellent player. The team from year to year relies on her for the trophy.

Aladi pulled 4,453 votes to emerge winner of the just concluded female football award. Her presence on the team brings the defender to stand still. She is tall and elegant an attribute that makes her a stand-out player.

Outside football, Aladi has won the humanitarian award. Her passion for community development is very unique. She has constructed covets in her village for the drainage system. She is ever ready to learn and ever prepared to take instructions from her coach.

Aladi is a utility player that can play from any angle. Sometimes she is deployed as a winger any time there is a shortage of wingers on the team. No wonder an excellent performance has earned her the number one spot on the log.

Ada Inalegwu

Ada Inalegwu is a player to watch. Her pretty nature shows on the pitch. She is a clever play and industrious to the core. Her possessive style of football makes her a very good midfielder. She has accurate passes and good tackles.

She is instrumental to her club’s success. She plays alongside Aladi of Adoka united. Aladi is the captain of Adoka united. She has won many awards in her capacity as a midfielder. In total, she scored 12 goals and 14 assists for the season. She is of no doubt one of the 10 best female footballers in Otukpo.

She hails from Onyagede Awume in Ohimini Benue state. Her style of football is exceptional. She graves for assistance and goals. Her excellent way of ball control is one to none. People gather to watch her because of her dazzling skills.

The 21-year-old onyagede born finished her secondary school education at Ibrahim Memorial College. She proceeded to adoka after she was selected during the all secondary school game. Her prolific shots on the ball pose great challenges to different keepers.

Maria Okpe

Maria okpe is born 1n 1998. She rose to prominence in female football in her early junior secondary school game and she gained the support of many journalists. Her father is a football player. She has been to many trails across the state.

She is a veteran winger. She plays as a left-winger. Her speed Is what gives her an advantage. Maria Okpe idolizes Martha of Brazil. Aladi Okpe plays for Ugboju queen. A team built around her. The team is tactically good and with a very tender squad.

Aladi Okpe finished the season with 14 goals to her name. she is instrumental to her finishing second on the log. She was born and raised in Ogoli Ugboju. She spent her secondary school life playing football. She has proved that making it in football is possible because of her humble background.

She pulled a total of 3211 votes to emerge as the 3rd best female player in otukpo. Her parents testify of her hard work and training. She is always fit and ready to play football at all costs. She sees anything round as a ball.

Anthonia Omale

Anthonia Omale is born in 1996. She is a good defender that has kept many clean sheets during the league season. Her central defense role makes it very hard for strikers to penetrate. Her brilliance at the back gives the keeper more confidence.

Anthonia omale is born to a family of seven. Her three sibling plays football. But she is outstanding among all her siblings. She is called the bulldozer because of her defensive power and her clearance rate on the field.

She pulled a total of 1134 votes to emerge as the fourth-best football in Otukpo Benue State. Her defense still makes her outstanding. She is referred to as a no-nonsense player both on the pitch and outside the pitch.

Maggi John

Maggi john plays for Akpa stars. She is a very good player. She finishes as the season 3rd highest goal scorer. She is a striker. She made 27 appearances for his club. Maggi John is referred to as a favorite girl. She can make goal chances and conversions.

She pulled a total sum of 1023 votes to emerge as the 5th best player produced in otukpo Benue State. Her brilliance made her team finish 4th on the league table. She is an experienced player capable of reading difficult games.

Achetu Agada

Achetu Agada is born and raised in ogobia Benue State. Her level of play is very unique. She is a keeper with many saves. She plays for upu united. She has kept 10 clean sheets during the season as a goalkeeper.

She is very young and elegant. She has represented the local government in various competitions and has won many trophies for the zone c senatorial district of Benue state. She pulled a total sum of 8232 votes to emerge as the 6th best player in otukpo Benue state.

Grace Peter

Grace peter emerged as the 7th best player on the list. She plays a very vital role to keep her team in the team. She couldn’t start the season because of injury. When she came back her team almost went into the relegation zone.

With her performance, she was able to turn the table and make good use of the real opportunity to pull her club out of the relegation zone. She is very young and energetic. She finished the season with 12 goals to her name. She is one of the 10 best female footballers in Otukpo.

Blessing Jeremiah

Blessing Jeremiah plays for Eupi. She is so good that they call he feminine okocha. She has won many league titles with her team. Although the season did not end well for her, she managed to score 8 goals.

Uka john

Uka John plays for rice mill queens. She plays as a defender. She kept 8 clean sheets throughout the season and made good defensive power works. She pulled a total of 6324 votes to finish 9th on the list of female footballers. Uka John is one of the 10 best female footballers in Otukpo.

Adejo Sandra

Adejo Sandra plays for upu united. She has made her mark by clinching the fair play award. Although she is a substitute player, she is very volatile in the field of play. She pulled a total of 4532 votes to complete the list of 10 best players in otukpo Benue state.

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7 Native Foods In Idoma Extradition

by Soloinformer April 19, 2022

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7 Native Foods In Idoma Extradition

Top 7 native foods in Idoma extradition cannot be overemphasized. The origin of Idoma soup can be traced to the kingdom of their ancestors. The idoma nation has its own way of cooking differently from other tribes. Making local dishes is not very easy because of the recipes involved in making them.

Fundamentally, the basic recipes for the preparation of local soup in Idoma land are less expensive but costly. Native soup is the more reason why some Idoma people get married to themselves because it is difficult to get someone that can cook the dishes.

Over time the local dishes have turned into national dishes. The local soup is going viral because of the spread of the Idoma national. None Idoma extraction is even in love with the soup because of the taste and aroma.

Significantly, any lady from idoma axis that does not know how to cook native soup is considered lazy. The process involved in cooking the food is very complicated. Some restaurants don’t even have soup for someone to eat.

Apart from soup, there are other dishes that are of Idoma people. Among the various dishes, soup is considered to be the main dish loved by almost every man. During the cultural celebration, the women showcase their different soups for a test.

This article without waste of time will discuss vividly the various food and delicacy in Idoma land and extradition. The importance of Idoma food or dishes cannot be over-emphasized. The approach to reveal the nature of this article is discussed below.

Okoho Soup

Okoho is among the top 7 foods in Idoma extraditions. Okoho soup is the best traditional soup of Idoma people. The soup is so delicious that people travel from the city to have a taste of the sup in the village. Loyal wives prepare this soup as a special gift for their husbands to win their husband’s hearts.

The ingredient for preparing this food is very scarce. The soup is prepared from a tree called okoho tree. The tree is found in the bush very close to the river bank. The tree is not too big but it has the ability to grow very fast.

Okoho soup is specially made with bush. The bushmeat includes grass cutters, antelopes, and a big catfish including stockfish. The soup is made with a fond egusi to compliment the sweet nature of the soup. The soup is very sweet.

Pounded yam is the best swallow combination for okoho soup. Anytime okoho is prepared it is expected to be accompanied by a soft pounded yam.

Okoho soup is very thick and is a draw soup. It digests very fast and accepts all forms of food because of the nature of the soup. It can be cooked with or without red oil. The preparation of the soup is very simple in the sense that it does not take too much time and energy.

Okoho soup can be preserved in the refrigerator for a longer period of time. The soup does not spoil easily. The soup can last for three days without changing its taste.in critical examination, we wish the soup spread across the globe.

The traditional council and rulers of idoma land hold the soup in high esteem. As a traditional ruler, you are expected to eat the soup at least twice a week. The delicious nature of the soup makes one want to eat more.

During the celebration of the new yam festival, the soup is sought by many people. If well garnish with the necessary ingredients it can send someone to an unknown destination. Frankly speaking, the soup is of a new age and new taste.

The preservation of the soup is in different forms. Firstly, the soup can be warmed every morning and evening to keep the taste and preserve it against all forms of bacteria. Secondly, the soup can be preserved at a very cool temperature.

The modern way of cooking okoho soup is to mix the entire ingredient and preserve them in the fridge so as to ease cooking for both indigene and none indigene.it is apparent to note that there is no formal way for the preparation of Okoho soup.

Sometimes mothers-in-law give their daughters this soup in their matrimonial homes. The soup is referred to as welcome soup for newly wedded or married couples. Okoho is a traditional soup that announces the arrival of newly wedded couples.

Dry Okra

No doubt dry okra is one of the top 7 native foods in Idoma extradition. Dry okra soup is meant for the dry season in idoma land. The okra is sliced neatly with a knife and dried under the sun for hours. After the sundry, the okra is dried up and the moist and water particles are no longer found in them. Dry okra is no doubt among the top 7 foods in Idoma extradition

The dry okro soup is the cheapest and commonest soup that can be cooked very fast. Normal dry fish can go with the soup. Dry okra soup can be eaten with fufu or Akpu. On a normal basis, dry okro soup is to shy away hunger and redeem energy.

In our contemporary world, okra soup is for pregnant women. The pregnant and expectant mother of idoma is expected to eat the soup to the fullest. The dry okra can be pounded or ground based on the taste and standard you are looking for.

The preservation of dry okra is simple as compared to other type of soup in idoma land. The soup is a fast food thus; it can last for just two or three days. The soup can be preserved using hot air or cold temperature.

Onah Oyila

Onah Oyila is a traditional swallow. It is made from dry cassava. The cassava is pilled of its shell and sundried. The drying of the cassava can take up to six or seven days. Subsequently, after drying the cassava, the cassava is ground and sieved to remove unwanted particles.

After removing the unwanted particles, boiled water is used to make the preparation of the Onah Oyila. Sometimes the texture of the food changes to another color in reaction to the degree of the hot water. Onah Oyila is very delicious.

The water for preparing this food should be very hot if not the swallow will be half done. Women that reside mostly in the village prepare this food better using their locally made firewood and local pots. The processing is mostly done in the village.

Okpeto

One of the top 7 native foods in Idoma extradition Okpeto. Okpeto is locally prepared yam porridge garnished with different assorted ingredients. The yam is sliced into various units and sizes. Okpeto can be found in any restaurant within idoma axis. It is good when the food is still hot with a fresh taste and aroma. Okpeto is among the top 7 foods in Idoma extradition.

The aroma of this food alone can make someone salivate and eat a lot. Most farmers in the village prefer eating this food because it gives them the energy to do more work. The food is served with palm wine for those who like drinking.

Okpeto hardly rejects ingredients and absolved water so fast thus; retaining nutrients. It can be cooked with vegetables like pumpkin leave and waterleaf. Some persons prefer vegetable okpeto with vegetable than the ordinary one.

Ebancha

One of the top 7 native foods in Idoma extradition. Ebancha is a delicious meal made from yam. The yam is dried under the sun for many days. After pilling the yam, it is sliced into razor shapes and dried under the sun. Ebancha is cooked with hot water. Some person grinds it before cooking while others leave it like that.

The most delicious part of this meal is the water absorbed by the yam. Some people used water as a sauce to eat a different kinds of food. The sauce can be used to eat pounded yam. In a like manner, the sauce can be preserved for another day. Ebancha is among the top 7 foods in Idoma extraditions.

Ebancha sometimes serves as an appetizer for people. The meal is cool and delicious. Ebancha requires more ingredients. This meal is referred to as a general meal. The meal can serve many people at a time. Ebancha is served in churches during crusades and other programs of the church.

Ukamu

Ukamu is a delicious soft meal gotten from millet. This food compliments the modern-day tea and bread. Akuma is good in the morning with AKara and bread. Idoma people call the food concrete because of the energy nutrients it contains.

Akuma is well prepared and can form a good diet for the family. People gather to eat this delicious meal every morning before the business of the day. The meal is a popular breakfast among the Idoma people. The preparation is very simple.

Akuma is prepared with hot water. First, the corn is ground into a powder form and sieved profusely to remove particles and shaft. The water for the akuma is boiled to the highest degrees and poured into a bowl.

The powder substances are poured into the hot water and turned gently. It solidifies gently and gradually turned to solid notifying that the food is ready for consumption. Apparently, Akuma is very cheap but it is nutritious because of the primary products.

Okpa

We can say that Okpa is one of the top 7 native foods in Idoma extradition. Okpa is also called bean cake, processed from beans. The beans are pilled and grounded into powdered form. The recipe is mixed and turned together in a large bowl. The turned ingredients are later put into a leather container and cooked for several hours.

Okpa can be eaten alongside soaked garri or even with rice. In the absence of all this, it can be consumed alone. Okpa can be preserved for two to three days without losing taste. It can be cooked with both red oil and groundnut oil.

I hope this article has categorically pointed out the outstanding seven meals in idoma land. I hope u have a taste of this delicious food anytime you visit a restaurant.

April 19, 2022 0 comment

Top 7 Causes Of Domestic Violence In Ohimini

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Top 7 Awesome Causes Of Domestic Violence In Ohimini

by Soloinformer April 14, 2022

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Top 7 Awesome Causes Of Domestic Violence In Ohimini

The top 7 causes of domestic violence in Ohimini are very important. Many homes in Idoma land have suffered one form of domestic violence or the other. The major problem faced by many homes in Ohimini Local government.

Domestic violence is not good and should not be welcomed in any state. People that suffer domestic violence are mostly women. Women are the weaker vessel. The climax of most domestic violence seldom ends in tragedy.

The remote cause of domestic violence in Ohimini Benue state is wrong marriage. Parents should not force their children to marry anyhow. Sometimes forces force their children to marry someone against their wish.

As much as you want the best for your child it shouldn’t to their detriment. Marriage is not a bed of roses but should not be hell. Couples face a lot in their marriage and tolerance should not also be left out.

Most cases of domestic violence recorded are purely a misplaced priority. It can be when interest supersedes love and affection in marriage. The true definition of love is completely out of the hook. How can you force marriage?

Some intending couples don’t even know the task ahead of them. They enter marriage completely ignorant without knowing the ingredients that make up a marriage. Domestic violence in Ohimini has wrecked many homes in many areas.

The institution of marriage should be a thing of enjoyment and not a wrestling ring. The abuse of marriage by both parties should not be promoted. Frankly speaking, the rate at which people are going towards marriage this day has a negative implication.

Everyone deserves a better life. The essence of marriage is not just to bear children and suffer. Some people go through emotional and physical torture. It is not supposed to be so. If you think the marriage is not compatible again the way out is just separation.

This article is critically designed to unveil the top 7 causes of domestic violence in Ohimini Benue state. If the article is critically examined, the rate of domestic violence will reduce to a minimum level. Both parties should as matter of fact learn to live compatibly with one another.

Anger

Anger is one of the areas that one needs to work on. People should learn how to control their temper. The majority of people act faster than their temper. They always act before they think. That thing has made many families scattered and destroyed.

The problem caused by anger in a few minutes cannot be repaired in years. Both parties should try as much as possible to identify their areas of difference that can generate anger. When one party is angry, one should be able to calm down.

Both parties having anger issues are very disastrous. Most times our adrenalin hormones can provoke our state of mind. Thus there is every tendency for one to get angry but the ability to resist it makes you a true man.

Anger is seen as a psychological balance between happiness and negative mood. The mood switch normally comes with different actions. Some parent shows their anger clearly for people to see them. They can abuse the entire family.

Pressure and Frustration

It one of the top 7 causes of domestic violence in Ohimini. Pressure and frustration are enemies of peaceful homes. Pressure can make someone act differently. It is one of the major causes of domestic violence. When demand for things that your husband cannot becomes much, pressure will set in.

Major cases of domestic violence are born out of pressure and frustration. The magistrate court in ohimini has recorded a lot of cases similar to either a man or woman complaining of how pressure made them fight.

Furthermore, for the family to stay peaceful, both parties should understand themselves. Both husband and wife should understand the capability of each other. They should understand each other both in financial matters and otherwise.

Sometimes the problem might not be much but it can linger for a long time. Unnecessary pressure can make any of the parties provoke and the problems arise rise from there. It is very accurate to state categorically that pressure is not good for the family.

Infidelity

Without a doubt, infidelity is one of the major causes of domestic violence in Ohimini. If both husband and wife don’t trust each other is very bad. Cheating is one thing that no individual is supposed to engage in marriage.

The moment cheating starts in a marriage, both parties will start showing a negative attitude towards themselves. Both feelings and emotions might die completely if infidelity sets in. Ohimini culture never allows cheating in marriages.

If the husband is suspecting the wife of cheating, the attitude will change. To keep your home very peaceful and safe, all forms of cheating must be stopped. The area which is to be amended should be looked into and both parties should work things out.

Wrong Marriage

Wrong marriage is very bad. Marrying the wrong person makes it very difficult to love. If love is not in any marriage is difficult always to cope with each other. The essence of marriage is love. If a couple marries wrongly it will affect them.

The parents in Ohimini always have the mind to give their children a husband. Any marriage where the wife or the husband is not happy is bound to experience domestic violence. The need to choose a life partner by oneself is very important and necessary.

If we can sit and think very well, it is not good to force someone into marriage. The negative effect of wrong marriage is very bad. The man and the woman comes from different areas and different backgrounds.

Furthermore, a marriage that is out of general acceptability by both parties is not good. It is very important to ask or seek the consent of both parties before joining them together. Homes that suffer domestic violence are always homes without love for each other.

Personal Ego/Belief

When personal ego supersedes love, the resultant effect is always bad. The man and the woman evergreens on anything. They always believe that they are always right. In any marriage where everyone is claiming rights, violence is bound to happen.

Like a saying, two wrongs can never make a right. If two parties have the same ego, then submission becomes difficult. The process of claiming superiority can amount to argument and later leads to violence. Some people believe that man is always right.

Their beliefs eat them deep to a point of hitting their wives or children. Religion plays a vital role in the family structure. Some culture allows men to beat their wives. The culture in Ohimini allows men to beat their wives. If their ego is not controlled, it will affect the marriage of both parties. It is a suffix to state that personal ego causes most domestic violence in Ohimini Benue state. If both parties can fix their ego, issues of domestic violence will be half solved.

Ignorance/Illiteracy

Illiteracy is one of the things killing our society today. Most people beat their wives because of their primitive state and nature. If couples are educated they thither better. The primitive nature of people around the Ohimini axis makes it difficult for them to take care of their wives.

I think ignorance is what causes people to even fight. The family lacks necessary exposure and as such, they engage in a physical brawl. Looking forward is to making sure that marriage receives adequate orientation and proper grooming.

The avenue for marriage counseling is not found in Rimini. That is why marriage in ohimini suffers domestic violence so much. If the necessary avenue for education is put in place people will have more knowledge of the future. My kind advice is that before going into any marriage, couples should embark on counseling.

Experience

Some people grew up in a violent families. The story of those people remains the same. So on getting their own family they will want to make practice it. Anytime the memories come to them, they feel like practicing them.

Most people in the drastic violent home always want their home violent. The possibility of them taking off such memory is always slim. In a nutshell, such kinds of people in ohimini are the ones that promote domestic violence.

It may interest you to know that some couples stay with their parent. Those of them that stay with their parents take instruction directly from their parents. The major outcome of this is that such parents dictate to the couple what to do.

If the nature of the parents is violent, the children will learn how to be violent also. It is very critical and glaring to state that many homes failed due to lack of home training. If you have proper home training it is difficult for you to hit your spouse.

If this article is carefully looked at, the top 7 causes of domestic violence in Ohimini can be reduced. The preventive and proactive measures are very much important. The rate of this violence should be checkmated and appropriate measures should be implored.

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